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currently planning a baby shower and i have some questions...
first of all, is it totally taboo that i'm planning this shower for me and that this is not my first, but my second baby, and that i didn't/couldn't have one for my first?
secondly, is it totally taboo that it's more of a get-together for friends and their families since i'm inviting guy friends and their SOs, as well as their children since my 1yo will be there too?
and thirdly, i have no idea what to do other than decorate and serve food. what are some things that i could do to make it more like a baby shower and less like a house-warming party that just so happens to involve a pregnant mom?