Amanda - posted on 11/30/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I just had a baby July 30th of 2013, a beautiful baby girl, weighing almost 8pounds! I'm 5 ft 4 inch and I weigh 165. Going in to give birth I weighed 198!! Before this pregnancy I weighed 145lbs... Well My husband is constantly saying "lay off eating this or that" or "don't you think that is a little tight? You need to take it back and get a bigger size" and even around friends and family he says little things like "a minute on the lips and a life time on the hips" it's horrible!! It's gotten to the point to where I'm not believing him when he says I'm sexy or beautiful bc he doesn't tell me I am as much as he says I need to loose weight... He even trys to say stuff like "if you get down to 115lbs I'll buy you a tummy tuck and boob job"... Him saying stuff like that makes me want to eat more from being depressed... I'm so sick of hearing his comments on my fat belly... Has any other moms went through this?? What did y'all do? Also my hubby is 36 and I'm 21 so I feel like he is too into my old sexy 21 year old body and isn't gonna let it go till I get it back!