Manj - posted on 11/21/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I been with this guy for 17years. We are highschool sweethearts. Great loving guy, cooks dinner , heart of gold but he's got a major problem.
He's got a drinking problem.
We have three children all under the age of 9. He's great with the kids but when he drinks he can't control his liquor. He gets loud, and just won't leave anyone alone like really bugging them. He leaves and doesn't wanna stay home b/c all he wants to do is party! He says he will be home in one hour and comes home 8 hours later. I'm stuck at home doing all the mom dad jobs like homework, spending time with kids. It really gets me angry! He should be home and hanging out with his beautiful kids and wife helping out.
In the last week or so he's been hooked on oxys. He was in a bad car accident which was his fault. I know his body isn't the same as it use to be. So the last week hes been hooked on these oxys and hasn't really been home. He's been power dialing all his friends and lying to them, lying to me, his parents, sister, and most importantly his children. Than I find out he's mixing liqour and oxys together. The oxys he is taking are 80 mg. Thats allot! Enough to kill you.
I just wanna pack up and leave and take my kids with me. On the other hand I want to stay and help him out b/c I don't want him overdosing. My kids without a dad would just break their hearts. I want to get him the help he needs but he's not listening! Honestly I been doing this for 8 years. I don't want to take this abuse nomore b/c I know i'm a supermom and want to be treated fairly but I don't want to break this family up too. Im so confused. It's not that easy just packing the kids and going. Especially when you have three children. Where do you go to a shelter...my goodness I don't want to do that. I am a stay at home mom too. I'm writing this b/c I need to vent. I'm hurting inside ....and it's just not fun!