BD wants no involvement

Lissa - posted on 06/02/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I am 6 months pregnant with my ex's daughter. I was hiding pregnancy from him because when we were together he use to hit me and if I would have told him sooner he promised to abuse me if he ever found out. 3 weeks after break up I told him and he thinks I want him back mind you he has no job, young, and smokes weed I told him I don't want him back just want him there when the baby comes and he said no because if he is part of her life it would seem like I want to own him which makes no sense, I was planning of showing him sonogram pictures but he said I'm a crazy bitch and he blocked me from contacting him so I told him when she is born I'll see him in court and his response was : "If you can find me, I moved" which he knows he's lying.


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Sara - posted on 06/02/2013




Consider yourself lucky, he hits you and tells you awful things why wouldn't he hit your little one? You are smart to move on and quickly.

Dove - posted on 06/02/2013




You can't force him to be involved. You CAN go to court to have custody, visitation, and child support set up, but you can not force him to be involved... or to care. Good luck!

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