Becoming a Mother at 19

Afandal - posted on 05/28/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hi Everyone,
I am expecting a child at the 19. I got into a relationship with the father of my child, we've had some ups & downs, but once I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant, he wanted me to do the abortion. Clearly I couldn't go along with it. A week after he told me that he cheated at the beginning of our relationship & she is also pregnant. This news devastated me! I was thinking I never done anything to this guy, who is 5 years older than me, but be a compassionate, supporting, respectful, & loyal girlfriend. He told me he doesnt have feelings for her, now he "loves" me. I want to be with him for the sake of creating a family for my child, but now I question is it worth it?

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Tanya - posted on 05/28/2014

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Is it worth it...?

How do you feel about what he has said to you? Will you be able to forgive him?

Is he financially stable or will he bring more stress onto you?

Do you love him? I wouldn't just be with him for the baby... I mean he can see his child, he is the father. But what is the point of having him there for nothing really?

However, if you love him it's a whole different story.

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Afandal - posted on 05/28/2014

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Well there are times when I do believe what he says and as for forgiveness it will take a while. I see myself loving him, but not now due to the betrayal he has given me. He claims that he is financially stable but I always wonder if he is able to give to the same amount of love I will give to our child. Its very hard now since I'm pregnant and I am always stressing out over this and blame myself for getting pregnant. Im just so scared of what the future behold for my baby and I.

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