Sophia - posted on 01/21/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
So I'm a mother of 3 myself, and im cuurrently with my fiancé which also has 3 children, (all girls) and well imma be blunt in this day and age, he is like most men with more than 1 bbymom. The first (his ex wife, mum of 2) is pretty chill and not at all the problem and really doesnt have a say because the girls live with us. But the 2nd bbymom is the problem, the lil girl is 7yr old and a delight to be with but its when she goes home and hears her mother bash me for no apparent reason is the problem. I dont like drama and I have kept myself from speaking up but it has now entered a new low. She has started dating (2nd bbymom) and the child has started calling her recent bf "dad" and she has been told to respecr whatever he tells her, but has also been told not to listen to me. So recently the kid has been bratty and talking back and although I understand she just a kid it bugs me to see the rest of the kids have to follow my rules and be respectful and the lil one gets away with murder if possible. I need advice. Im desperate!