being bullied

Julia - posted on 01/21/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have a 4 yr old daughter. Her dad and I have been off and on for 7 years until last year. He started dating someone new, and got pregnant immediately. She moved in after 5 months. After that my daughter s dad started being above all extremes, mean to me. I am so hurt by this. I don't know why. I don't get it. I forced the court to make us go to counseling but he just constantly accused me of not being a good mom. I know I'm a very good mother. So i went to counciling myself to learn how to deal with this to change it and o was told not to worry about him but work on myself. His gf has been extremely rude on many occasions to me. What gives? These ppl are in there mid 30s and I'm a struck by there behavior. So tired of hurting. How can I change this?


Michelle - posted on 01/21/2015




I would only contact him in regards to your daughter. Let him know that you will only talk to him about your daughter and there is no need to discuss anything with his girlfriend.
It sounds like they are very immature and if they want to act like school kids then let them, just ignore them and they will soon tire of it. Just like a toddler having a tantrum.

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