Marisa - posted on 06/02/2013 ( 8 moms have responded )
Fellow moms, needs some suggestions and guidance. I am a single mom of an 11 month old baby girl, and luckily do have my father and step mom that like to watch my daughter and recently i have been taking a night class so i can get my teaching certificate because im currently unemployed. I have given them a schedule, tell them what the doctor says and still they are doing what they want. They have gotten my daughter used to falling asleep in their arms and then going to bed but i can't do that every night and dont want her to get use to it. By 730-8 at night i need to get her to bed and do homework, eat dinner and clean up from the day.She also needs to sleep, no matter what she is up between 7-730am. They wont let her cry it out and dont follow my scheduled for her naps and feeding. They are calling me ungrateful and acting like they are doing me a favor. But then they say they love to have her . THey say they are doing their best, but they are doing the best for them. There is no use for me to let it Cry it Out if the nights she's with them they dont follow it. Im stuck and getting into so many arguments with them. Anyone have any advice? I was just thinking to deal with it till im done with my class and then thats it they can't have her over night anymore.