Jessica - posted on 02/19/2015 ( 13 moms have responded )
So my bf seems so bothered by my four year old. He doesn’t want to involve him in any of our activities, a cruise for my bday for example. He wants me to spank my child for things he does to him for example turning off the restroom light while my bf is in the shower. The smart thing to me as a parent would be lock the door so Has no access to the restroom while he is in there, he rather feels he should be spanked. It’s to the point where I don’t want my son to feel not wanted in his own home. Or like mommy doesn’t like him anymore. It doesn’t seem to bother him right now but I don’t know what he is really feeling inside. Does he like my bf? He always says my bf is mean. But other times they seem to get along well. It’s all about my bf most of the time though. My bf doesn’t understand him although he has a teen girl himself so he has experience with kids. Not sure if he was active in his daughters life as much because he is a marine. Anyways, he says he disrespects him. I explain to him, he’s a child. He would have disciplined him long ago if I let him. I don’t believe in spanking my child. I’m stuck. I don’t want to have to choose in the future. I love my bf. Why can’t he understand my child is just a kid doing kid things? Ugh someone please help.