Bio Dad does not want to be asst coach to baseball but Stepdad does

FoxyMom - posted on 01/29/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My sons biodad does not want to be assistant coach for my sons baseball team. My fiance/his future stepdad would love to but I'm afraid my ex will have an issue with it. Any suggestions?

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Ev - posted on 01/29/2013

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And its not about the adults. Its about the kids. How many people really understand that? Its too bad he made his choice and does not like it when the future step dad is going to interact with the boy. What does he think your guy is going to do? Go invisible? I think not. THe step parents are there and it is time to get over it. If your guy is willing to do this then encourage him too. Let your ex who is the bio dad have his two year old fit. He will either get over it or not. There is not much you can do. But tell him that its not about him or step father....its about your son and the fact that his bio dad is loosing out on a chance to be wit him. Also tell him that his son will suffer for his dad's not taking part in things with him. Tell him that also the step dad wants to have a good relationship with your son and his dad is going to have to deal with it.

FoxyMom - posted on 01/29/2013

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It's not that I don't want him too but my ex is the type that will show his butt because he is the dad not my fiancé. It will go down like this... He will get pissed because my fiancé is involved with my son even though biodad don't want to do it.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/29/2013

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Talk to him about it. Talk to our child also and see how he feels about it. Be open and honest about it, and things will work out the way it is suppose to.

Ev - posted on 01/29/2013

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You can't force your child's father to do something at all. You two are apart for a reason though you share a child. If he has given a reason and it seems valid enough to him, do not pester him with it. Let the future step dad do it. It will give him something to bond with your son over and make their relationship closer. Did bio dad say if he would attend the games that he could at least?

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