Alexa - posted on 10/23/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
So this is the second site I visit to share and relate with others. The first site I went on didn't go so well and I got attacked by bitter stepmoms with bad experiences. Any negative or mean feedback isn't wanted. So basically me and my fiancé have been together for a year and a half and he has a 4 year old. I am 24 and he is 30 and we have a home. My fiancé got caught in a situation where right when his ex felt like they were breaking up she got "pregnant" while on the pill. Him not having a father he stayed with her until he couldn't take it anymore. She is lazy and never took care of her son and he did everything in the household. She doesn't work either and he had to come home from a long day cook clean and take care of his son. Anyways....recently we found out shes been super unstable and escorting herself for work and she agreed to give him full custody and she has visits every 2 weeks on the weekend. This little boy adores me...we get along great. My fiancé is an amazing man and takes care of us both and in our household it is a loving environment but this girl is driving me nuts. Long story short she obviously tries to put things in her sons head calling me mean and he comes home saying she said I am a dog etc... I don't agree with how she raises him the little time that she has although I try my best to keep my distance and respect boundaries. This weekend my fiancé's son came back with his head shaved to the skin!!! After I just cut his hair a few days before! She said he had a dry patch and needed to shave it but I see nothing! She is crazy and is known for doing crazy things. This is her second son from a different man. She did the same thing to her first boyfriend and he now has full custody! Anybody can relate or give me advice? I am a very outspoken and opinionated person and I'm having a hard time keeping my mouth shut. My boyfriend confronts her and tries to set her straight but she laughs it off and thinks its a joke. How can I deal and just let this go? She gets me angry and all I want to do is yell at her when she comes pick him up. She is always starting fights or doing things to get on my nerves but I am at a point where I just want to pop! (Italian genes lol) So if anyone can give advice or share any stories I would appreciate that.