bio mom harrasing step mom
â« Shawnn âªâ«â« - posted on 08/02/2013
If she's violating the custody order by not returning the children at the agreed upon time, you CAN take her back to court for that, as long as you have documented proof of the offenses. They are correct, you can't do this as a tit for tat thing. You need to be documenting every contact with her, documenting every violation of custody, etc. Arm yourself with documentation.
As for the harassment of you, personally, get a restraining order against her!
Cynthia - posted on 08/01/2013
Dad does try to be the only one to interact with her. She seeks me out while he is at work. And the number she calls me at is my business line. didn't mean to leave him out she actually worse with him. We asked for an ex-parties hearing to request supervision for visits it scheduled for the 24th. Last night she took the same child to the hospital because mom couldn't get her vagina clean enough and she showed the doctor pictures on her phone of this 5 almost six yr old girls vagina with hood pulled back because the was a spot of secretion on it. The doctor said the child was a little red but that was probably from moms attempt to clean it, as for the secretion thats totally normal for any female. And again no repercussions for this woman insanity. Our lawyer said we cant come off as if its tat for tat. and with the severity its hard for judge not to think its being exaggerated. And really this just a little bit of what we go through. the police tell me its up to the court i have to take her back to cival court for my harassment and they wont even make her give the children back after her visit even though we have a court order from a judge that we have 100% custody.
Jodi - posted on 08/01/2013
The visits aren't supervised? That surprises me if there is evidence of previous abuse. You should talk to a lawyer about having the visits supervised.
If you have already filed police reports about the harassement, check what they are doing about it.
Why are you dealing with her anyway? It isn't up to you to agree to or not agree to the visits. There seems to be a father missing from the entire picture you have painted. This is his place to deal with it.
Cynthia - posted on 08/01/2013
I almost wish cps would get involved. Bio mom calls me 19-27 times a day i have phone records iv'e filled police reports for harassment shes been caught three different times in my car i made police reports. she showed up at my door with some friend of hers pretending to be a police officer, she wanted to strong arm a visit out of me called police filed another report because her friend was in fact not a police officer. CPS removed the children from her 3 years ago for putting a cigarette out on the than 3 year old girl. Now some judge says we have to give her 12 hours of visits. last week she made the same child take a anxiety pill cause she was to hyper. its always a long drawn out dra fest to get the kids back from a vist
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