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I'm not sure where to begin on this but I can say its a terrible situation that I wish had a solution. Let's start by saying the Bio Mom hated me from the beginning just because I'm with her ex husband whom she might I add divorced 2 times for no reason accept she has mental issues. I have never spoken to her face to face due to she would never allow it. Bio Mom & Dad have 3 children a son 24 a son 22 & a 16 year old daughter. I have 1 son 20 & 1 daughter 16. The oldest step son is married with one baby 1 & another on the way. Let's start by saying the Bio Mom has always had complete control of all of her children's moves until the oldest boys moved out. My 16 year old step daughter is under complete control by Bio Mom. My husband has not seen his daughter since April of 2014 due to the fact the Mother has alienated her against the Bio Dad's side of the family. Its my belief that the Bio Mom has a narcissitic personality and the GUC Complex and its her way or not way always and never apologies. Four days after her first grandbaby was born out of jealousy towards myself and ex hubby Bio Mom tried to physically attack the daughter in law while the grandbaby lay next to her. My step son had to restrain his Mother while she screamed profanities at everyone. My step son has stop all contact with Mom due to the fact she refuses to admit she was wrong and he states that his daughter won't be raised around such a controlling environment. Now all of this has built up due to the fact her ex hubby my new hubby has moved on and was engaged to get married. Bio Mom tried several times to get him back over the course of the engagement as well. Getting back to Step Daughter she hasn't seen her new niece since that day or the rest of Dad's family (heartbreaking). Of course Bio Mom says its her daughter's choice but I believe its a case of Parental Alienation of its worst kind. My heart breaks for my husband cause he's hurting by not seeing his daughter and I believe the Bio Mom is doing this to punish my husband cause she doesn't see her grandbaby. This is just a small portion of the whole situation that I'm in with a blended family but believe me I love my husband dearly or I would run for the hills to escape this unstable Bio Mom. Any suggestion???