Tara - posted on 03/10/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. Since we got together, we have dealt with issue after issue with his ex. I have not ever met this woman and she is stressing me out to no end.
When we first started dating, they had been broken up for 6 months. When she found out we were dating, she flipped and would stand outside of his house calling me an ugly whore and a homewrecker and him a deadbeat. He had to threaten to call the cops to get her to leave.
She showed up a couple of times after that but stopped after we had been dating for 5 months. Come to find out, my bf ended up sleeping with her. She confronted me on fb about it and said I ruined her family and broke them up. After he went to counseling and tried to make things right, she found out we were back together and she lost it.
She started posts about me on social media. Told everyone what he'd done to me and laughed about her part in it. She sent naked pics to his email and begged him to leave me. She has brought my family into it. So far, I've ignored everything.
I have yet to meet his child because she forbids it. In fact, his child refuses to meet me because of things his mother has told him. His son is 12 btw. The kid says horrible things to his dad because she rewards him for that. The kid admitted he said he wished we'd die because his mom said he'd be grounded if he didn't say all that.
What do I do about this woman? My bf is at a loss. They are currently going back to court for some issues. I don't like conflict or confrontation. And I don't know what to say to her if I was to confront her. Any advice is appreciated.