Pauline - posted on 02/25/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I have a 4 year old daughter, who will be 5 in one month. She was raised by a man who was not her biological father. After court and pathrnity testing, the real father was revealed as another man. The three of us (adults) made an agreement with our lawyers. We all share joint custody of the 4 ur old child. With the biological father having visitation rights as well as her phycological father having visitation rights as well. Child lives with me(mother). We as a group are suppose to inform my child that she this man she visits with, she calls him uncle (biological father) is really her father. My child is very smart for her age because she has an older sibling in the house with us my 13 ur old daughter. My question is, when should I inform my 4yr old child that her uncle is her real father n the father that she calls dad is just her phycological father? Confused!