Debi Garcia - posted on 11/30/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I decided to (one more time) start looking for my first child who is now 41 yrs old. I was one month into my 15th year on earth when I gave birth, was raped by a family member when 14. My mother did not believe me, and she stated when she came to pick me up from the hospital (I was all alone, walked myself in, when in labor)that we were not bringing the infant home. A social worker was kind enough to allow me visits with him while he was in a foster home awaiting adoption. I last saw him at 6 months, How enthusiastic should I be?, I don't think he knows he's adopted? Is this a bad idea? I may be harming him if he doesn't know.