Adriana - posted on 04/08/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I need advice on what to do...my friend is pregnant with baby #4 and I expressed to her my desire to plan her a baby shower. She was very thankful for the thought, but explained that she really did not plan on having a baby shower since she has most of the big items already from her previous kids, but maybe we could do something for her birthday and celebrate the baby too with her close friends.
I am open to that, so I created an evite with her wish to celebrate the birthday girl & baby, but in lieu of gifts to her, if they wish to buy something, she would prefer for the baby instead. :)
We are having it at a very nice restaurant of her choice and it is all girls (20) of us.
My question is, should I be decorating, making shower favors or what should I be doing? Normally at a baby shower, I know this is expected, but because she expressed no shower and we are having dinner, I was unsure of what is expected. I really don't want to mess this up and want to be sure I do this right to make her day special! :) Thanks!!