Birthday Drama

Jennifer - posted on 02/04/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am a stepmom. My stepdaughter who is 5 , is having a birthday party by her real mom this weekend....My question is should me and my husband go? It's his daughter. The background to this is that we are having her party the next weekend. The mother is a spiteful person in general...and there will be major tension since her new boyfriend is my hubands ex best friend. Plus we have full custody...we cant make a decision on this. Help! I feel like its going could lead to more problems.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/04/2014

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Um...If you and her father are holding a separate party for her, why would you want to take the drama to the party hosted by her mother?

Don't invite trouble. This shouldn't be a question at all. If she says she wants daddy there, then Daddy can explain that you and he will be having a party for her, and that he will not hurt mommy's feelings by trying to butt into hers.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/04/2014

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I would just RSVP regrets ;-)

Much less stressful for all that way. But do explain to the kiddo....

Jennifer - posted on 02/04/2014

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I forgot to mention that she did invite us......even though they had already agreed to separate parties.

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