Bisexual Married 40's Mom El Paso, Tx Area

P - posted on 03/10/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi, I am new to this and would like to meet new friends that are caring, understanding, supportive and love to laugh. I am married with two children. I have been in the closet and my husband will not be okay with me coming out due to family. He is aware that in my past in high school i kissed a girl. That is as far I have ever gone. About 2yrs ago I met that girl from high school and my attraction for her was real as 26 yrs ago. She is in a relationship with a woman and also has two children. We have seen each other but nothing has happen due to I have the understanding she is in a relationship and I do not want to do anything that would cause her have any doubt or problems with her wife. She has been the only woman I have felt this way for but recently I have been thinking about how I will like to experience to be with another woman. Of course I would have to get to know that person and establish a friendship. And from there we would have to see if it leads to something more than than a friendship. Not sure if this feelings are normal at my age.

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Sarah - posted on 03/10/2016

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Normal or not, you are married. Unless you are in an open relationship you owe it to your spouse to either be honest or faithful or both.

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Jodi - posted on 03/10/2016

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"recently I have been thinking about how I will like to experience to be with another woman. "
" And from there we would have to see if it leads to something more than than a friendship."

I'm sorry, but you are CONSIDERING being unfaithful to your husband. Bi or not, this is being unfaithful to your partner.

And how the heck are you being honest in your relationship? You are hiding your feelings from your husband.

You don't have the right to start developing a relationship with another woman with intention of it becoming more unless you end the one you are in now. End of story.

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