Blended family I want to add a baby of our own and he isn't sure..?

Hayley - posted on 04/15/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have a 2 year old and my husband has 3 kids ages 4, 9, and 16 and we have no kids together I always wanted 2 kids but of course he is on the fence about it he has 3 kids with 3 different moms so I think it worries him that it wont work out but I am ready he is quite a bit older than me and I want it to happen now I don't want my kids to be so far apart like his I would love my daughter to have a brother or sister to play with all the time since we only have his kids on the weekends. advice or has anyone gone through something similar.

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Hayley - posted on 04/20/2014

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Oh I definitely understand and I see his point of view so I've been patient but we discussed this way before we ever started our relationship so he also knew what I wanted I think he's just hesitant. But yes he is 13 years older than me.

Ev - posted on 04/15/2014

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These are some things you should have been talking about all along. i take it you are married to this man. If he is quite a bit older, he may not want to start over again. Its not easy to have a teen and two younger than that one and then to start over again unless the couple is for it. You said he has 3 kids with three moms. I can see his point being worried if it does not work out. It would be another child he is responsible for and one who he will pay child support on until 18. I understand your wanting to have another child and to have one with him but you have to look at his side of it too.

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