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My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married for 1 year , I have 4 kids from a previous marriage and he has 2 kids , one of his children lives with us and she is the same age as my girls . We have been fighting for some time now because he believes that I dont treat her the same as I do my own children . I love all of our kids the same but its difficult when problems arrise and he doesnt want to handle them . For some time now his daughter has been lieing and stealing from home and school , i;ve tried to handle this on my own since he refuses to see what is happening but when i disipline her he gets angry and we fight . I don't spank her , i just take stuff away for 1 or 2 days or she has to be placed in time out .She is 11 and all of this is begining to be overwhelming to me . I'm no longer sure of what to do , since he wont face the problems and this is affecting my children also , they r not treated the sameby him and they question why ? It brakes my heart when thay ask me if he loves them , i don't know whatto do anymore .