Erica - posted on 08/13/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
Im mainly asking a question for us bio moms that have to deal with step moms. I dont see why the SM always has to control and tell my ex what to say to me, and email me. I wish she would stay out of it and her opinion doesnt matter, She tells me "we're married and we make decisions together."
She also encourages my DD's bad bahaviour over the phone with me, I cant take it and at my wit's end. i dont know what else to do. if i tell SM to back off shes' not in the control booth she ll do it even more.
This woman loves to bother me and make me feel uncomfortable. I believe she thinks I want my ex back, thats very untrue. i remarried and with the love of my life. I feel that she maybe a bit insecure of her marriage she has with my ex.
I dont really know I can only assume.