Boyfriend adoption

Ashli - posted on 07/24/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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The father of my sons passed away and now the guy I'm dating wants to adopt my sons after we get married. I'm not sure if I should allow it to happen or not. He loves them and they love him but I don't know if its the right call. Suggestions?

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Ashli - posted on 07/25/2014

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They aren't old enough to understand. I also refuse to change their last name because it's not like he left us. By no means is my boyfriend pushing it but considering he can't have kids and with how much he loves my boys he wants it. Right now I've told him its something we would have to talk about and something I'll have to look into. I'm just wondering if I should do it or if other ppl have done it.

Chet - posted on 07/24/2014

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This is a very personal decision. You should definitely consider the legal implications of adoption. You should definitely consider the feelings of your children if they are old enough to understand.

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