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Hello, I don't know if this is the right place to be, but I need some advise.
I am not a mother, but my fiance is a father to a wonderful 4 year old, but he only sees every 2 weeks for 1 day as his son lives with his mum full time.
We are in a long distant relationship, and the plan was me to move down to him because of his son but things have changed. He has no job, getting into debt, where I do have a very good job and living stably. I don't want to leave everything to go and live with someone who cannot provide for himself or for me.
If this continues, would it be selfish of me to ask him to move 2 hours away from his son to live with me and see his son every other weekend? He lives close just in case something happens to his son and he needs to be there.
Any thoughts? Just being a step mom to be, worried if I even mention it to the fiance he'll tell his son will see me as the 'evil step mum'.