Marysue - posted on 11/22/2015 ( 27 moms have responded )
This is my first bf that we rekindled after 20 years. We didn't get together because I had strict parents but he was the one that got away so I'm excited that he's here now. The problem is I'm so scared of losing him because yes I have a problem with this relationship because he offers no information about it. He insists I just trust that nothing is going on with his ex. He is purely interested in her daughter. She has a dad that is not involved and through his relationship she would call him daddy. She was 4 when they met and is now 6. We had a big fight because he went out with the ex and daughter for the daughter's birthday. Just the three of them. If it was a birthday party I had no issue but this was just the three for breakfast. He offers no information if he has spoken to the daughter but the ex works in the sand circle as he so he maintains a working relationship he says. It's been 9 months that we are together and I'm very torn. He says he never married because it was always me and kept items I gave him 20 years ago. He insists I gave to trust him that his intergrety is everything. There are times I don't know where he is and my first thought is they are together. They were together for 2 years broke up and then we met. No time in between for him to heel. Now if I ask, he flips our and says it's none of my business. Do I walk away?