Jemma - posted on 04/22/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi really need some advice and help its a long story cut short my boyfriend owns a house and is still married to his wife and he has an obsession with this stupid house! He and his wife had sorted and she said he can have the house and shell find some were eles with half the house worth it because she wanted smaller and couldnt afford the rest of the morgage but now she wants the house which I dont blame her its her family home but my now ex weren't happy about it and he was ganna get a divorce. But both have to sell if carnt agree and I said well get some were eles I would prefer that but no he dont want to anyway we have been on and off millions of times because of this house even when I was pregnant iv gone though hell with it and been so stressed he doesnt seem the slightest botherd and hes left me again not only me his week old daughter who os gorgeous I dont know how he can love a house so much over me and his daughter but I still love him and want him but in another state off mind he has let me down broke my heart and broke my trust I dont think I could get back with him but love him to bits he will go back home to his wife and it kills me :( im a first time mum and I am soo worried and scared that I wont be able to look after and provide for her :( I dont qant to be a single mum I still have my job but hes works there to which doesn't help but think I will need another job aswell also hes wants her to have his name which I dont thinks right cus thats hos wife's name :@ also will he have more rights if he trys anyhing ?? Sorry to bore you lol but im so heartbroken and depressed and trying to be strong for my little girl he also keeps saying he loves us both whoh I dont believe why would u choose a house over a women that would do anything for hom and a gorgeous baby ?