boyfriend's mom trying to be in control when it comes to our daughter

Natalie - posted on 12/31/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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i have 9month old baby girl, I still live with my mom and stephfather. But it seems to me that bf's mother wants to be in control when it comes to our child. She phones him when we are together and tells him she wants to see the child now and the child must stay with her the whole day (something I don't allow, not even with my own parents) and we need to bring her over or she's gonna come and pick her up. she never asks, she always demands. I work till 5 in the afternoon and I bring the child to their house every second day in the week for an hour or two just so that they can spend time with her but the grandmother is never satisfied, cos she wants to see the child everyday.. as a mother our lives are busy and our time are limited, what she doesn't understand is that I can sit at their house till late in the evening (especially weekdays) seeing that I need to get home and bath my child and put her to bed..i once saw something on her phone where she once told a few people she aint no grandmother and she got nothing to do with grandmother stuff, that was before my child was born...what should I do?im so confused cos my bf does not back me up on this, it always turn out to an argument if I try talking to him about this issue

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