Devon - posted on 07/18/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
He came flat out and said to me during a conversation about money..."you mean to say that you wouldn't give my kids money if they asked you for it??" My reply, "it depends on the situation" and I would like to see them have more respect for money before I just hand it over to them. My dilemma is that we are not married yet nor do we live together. I was a bit shocked that boyfriend thought I should have anything to do with buying his kids the things they want (ie, hair extensions, manicures, haircolor, clothes, etc) these are wants,not needs.
If they needed something and boyfriend couldn't afford it...different story. Any thoughts from the group?