Shantane - posted on 01/26/2010 ( 59 moms have responded )
My boyfriend has 2 young daughters from a past relationship ages1 and 2. His ex-the mother doesn't let him take his children anywhere or overnite for that matter. she brings them over to his mom's place once in a while. But yet she complains he doesn't see his kids enough. She prefers that he comes to HER home to see his kids anytime. This girl still has feelings for him and wishes they could still be together. He wants nothing to do with her but very much wants to be in his daughters lives. She knows this so she sometimes uses her kids for pawn. Basically if he doesn't do things her way she doesn't allow him to speak to the kids on the phone or she won't bring them to see him at his mom's home. now i do have a problem with him going to HER place to see his kids because its HER that i do not trust. Plus i don't think its right anyway! I believe she only wants him there so that SHE can spend time with him also. According to stories of their past she's always been this way. -Clingy!! Anyways, i told him i'm not comfortable with him going to HER place and he understood for a little bit and didn't go but then she wouldn't bring the kids to his mom's place so he ended up going over there to see his kids. I was bothered by this. He plans to go again. Any advice????