break up

Natalie - posted on 03/15/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Me an my partner an father are going through breakup he just came home one day saying he was unhappy. An found someone else. He works in oilfield so i didnt miss see the signs of long hrs away. He pretty much kicked me an kids out . We moved two hrs away to my moms. An he still hasnt called to check on them. Im pretty upset. How could this happen

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Michelle - posted on 03/15/2014

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You are allowed to be angry. Maybe get yourself some counselling to help you work though all the emotions.

Natalie - posted on 03/15/2014

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Thank you ,an yes ive already started all the legal proceedings,but i cant help bein angry

Michelle - posted on 03/15/2014

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You can't force him to be a Father unfortunately.
You should get a lawyer and file for child support and visitation ASAP, that way the courts will let him know when he gets to see the children and it's up to him if he does or not.
Unfortunately, people do find others, and there's nothing you can do but be strong for your children. Get on your feet and show them that with love and support you can get through anything.

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