Lu - posted on 08/01/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
So me and my babies father have been on and off for 2 years and it has always bee rocky. He never wanted to only be with me and make us exclusive.
We now have a 2 month old baby together and he say's he wants to be with me now, after all this time.
The only thing is I don't think he really does, when I'm around him he's nice, says he misses me and that he loves me, but I can't help but feel like he feels obligated to be with me now, and that I'm burdening him and his life. His actions also show completely different when I am not around him.
We live an hour and a half away from each other since my baby has been born because I had to move back in with my parents, and I see him every Sunday for him to spend time with his baby. When I'm with him he is acts like he wants me (most of the time), aside for our arguing because we are on different pages about the baby and our relationship. When I am back home the rest of the week, he doesn't call or text until Saturday, to make plans for Sunday. Often times when I reach out he ignores my texts and calls, even when it's about the baby.
He says he wants to be in our lives, but whenever the baby is there on Sunday, he just wants to give him to his mom and go out or play video games and watch tv. Last week I went down Saturday night and immediately the baby went to his mom and he wanted to go out with me and his friends, and this was around 11. I agreed to go out, but the next day I was up with the baby and he wouldn't wake up until 1.
Lastly, a couple weeks ago I saw he was texting someone called (baby ♥) from the corner of my eye, and when I mentioned it to him he made me feel like I was crazy.