Victoria - posted on 05/27/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
Well i've had a very rough relationship with my boyfriend we have fought alot and they have gotten pretty serious. He does have alot of anger problems but he has never hit me or my son, he just vents very aggressively. We recently had a huge fight over christmas break and then again after we attended a party in the middle of may. There was lots of name calling, crying, yelling, and breaking up. We have broke up once already just after christmas and we went about a month and I figured that we could get back together and work on things for the sake of our son. Now after fighting this month i've thought alot about everything in my life and have decided that I need to be happy and so does my son. Since tuesday me and my boyfriend have been split up he is still staying at my house until he gets paid, but its been rough he has been trying everything to get me to change my mind and get us to work on things. I don't know what to do I don't want to be hurt anymore, all I ever wanted was to be happy and enjoy our life for the three of us. But I've been hurt so many times and I'm scared to let him take our son out by himself bcause I'm afraid he won't come back and ill never see my son. Please give me advice on what I should do? Is it normal for mothers to fear there babys father leaving and never coming back? Should I stay and work things threw for my son or should I just move on?