Mary - posted on 11/06/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
This topic never really hit me until just now. When I had my first baby I was by myself. No emotional support, I was really afraid, and ended up having a c-section after getting stuck at 4 cms for a day and a half, and a blood pressure out of control.
I'm pregnant again, and my conditions are different. Not only I have a wonderful man by my side, but also his family, who cares for me in a way I would never expected, not because of anything weird, but just for the bad experience I had before.
I don't know if my emotional state had anything to do with me having a c-section, but I feel so at ease now, even though I would be takinc care of my toddler, a newborn, a man, my home and myself, but doesn;t really scare me. Does anybody think I should consider a vbac? does anybody have any experience on this?
By the way, I had zero blood pressure issues during my first pregnancy until the day I was admitted to the hospital