Can anybody help me? I am really getting troubled by my mother in law and dont understand what to do?

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Christy - posted on 01/30/2013

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Have you any trusted friends you can talk to, maybe at work. it must be very difficult for you without your family over there. Can your family help in anyway, are you in contact with them do they know how unhappy you are.Is there anyway they can come and see you or you them just for a holiday.. Can you and your husband get away for a break so you can discuss this the . Its difficult living with in-laws or any other members of the family especially if the house is small and there is no privacy.

Christy - posted on 01/29/2013

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Hi there, your in-laws
are very cruel, try to ignore there comments, which I know will not be easy, they are not medical experts. I would try and get some councilling you have been through so much and your in-laws are making you feel worse. Is there anyway you could move out of there house and find your own place, I know this may be difficult with the economy as it is.

Ariana - posted on 01/28/2013

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You live with your mother in law?

Have you tried telling her how you feel about the situation?

I'm not 100% sure what you're trying to convey to be honest.

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Princess - posted on 01/31/2013

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Yes i have some friends here from my place and i have even discussed with them on internet but they cant help. I went to my place and returned before 3 weeks. I met my parents there. I have told them everrything and they understand me but there is no meaning of coming here for them. what will they do? well i have planned to shift my family here. but my father will need a suitable job for that. now a days, my in laws pretend to be very good with me. I dont know why but i know one thing that they need somthing from me. that's y only. I am not working. U know i have done IT degree in india and when i came here after marriage and I desperately wanted to work but my in laws refused me to do work and even finding a job. so i couldn't work from that time and then miscarriages made me very ill to work.

Princess - posted on 01/29/2013

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I also want to get seperate from them but my husband not. But i want to live with my husband thats why im not thinking about this option.

Princess - posted on 01/29/2013

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I have been married for 3 years and there is a lots of things happend with me in these years. I had 2 miscarriages and both the time it was natural and i m still in depression of my babies loss. but what they told me is that u killed ur babies and it was really shocking incident for me and i never never expected these from them. I am alone here in uk. My parents are in india. I have some relatives here but they support my in laws against me. I am really alone. I dont have friends to visit or i dont have anyone here my own.

Princess - posted on 01/28/2013

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My in laws think like i do my home job like i m servant and they dont have any feeling for me but just want me to stay with them for only their selfishness.

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