Martha - posted on 01/14/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
When I got pregnant the father was excited. We are both 20 yrs old. He signed the birth certificate and all. He has changed for the worse. By the end of August 2012 he was holding our son who was 2 months. We got into an argument, turned real bad. I begged him to stop yelling at me in front of the baby. I tried to leave the room he grabbed me by the arm shoved me out into the hallway and threw me to the ground...he then went to put the baby in the crib and as I was getting up he dragged me into the room and started tellin at me, tellin me so many mean things, cursed me out and tellin me I was a bad mother. I went to file a rèport at the police station. I have never ever done anything to him to cause so much anger. Him on the other hand, he did things behind my back, took girls out to dinner, talked to his exes. And recently he texted his exs mother tellin her hôw much he missed his exs and he never stopped thinking about her. I have been with him for the past two years. It really angered me and I kicked him out on Christmas Eve. He had denied it at first, cursed me out nd twanged proof. I showed it to him and he stayed shut. A few days after he came back tellin me he's sorry. I again forgave him for like the 4th time. He has been really mean to me lately. Just today he woke up in a bad mood and threatened to take my son away for like the tenth time. He threatened to call the cops because according to him, I can't take care of him. Which isn't true. I give my full undivided attention to my son,him on the other hand, is glued to his ps3, texting, ipad and watching tv. I get mad at times because he forces my son to sleep so he can play ps3. I hate it. So today, I tried to avoid the problem, I carried my 5 month old, and just as I opened the door to go to the living room, he ran towards the door and slammed it shut and pulle me back, he almost closed the door on our son Ande door hit me in the fface. He threw me and my son on the bed and grabbed him by the arms and any way he could so he can take him away from me. I was crying hysterically and for the first time ever my son looked frightened and he hugged me so tight. I told him to leave me alone and he went to do laundry. He came back and took my son out and he hasn't yet been back.. I want to go to the police but I'm afraid they'll look for him. Can I get custody of the child or what can I do? I want my son safe and happy. It hurts so bad. My son doesn't deserve this.