can i get sole custody or primary custody

Denisha - posted on 05/08/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )

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can i get sole custody or primary custody
hey , my daughters father has issue a joint custody paper to me and he havent been in my daughters life since she was 4 months and she now is 15 months he only seen her 3 times told after 4 months old on sept 7th for like 20 minz on jan 28 at her birthday party and she wouldnt go to him she would cry like someone is hurting her when he try to pick her up ...thats because she dont no him,,,and on feb 14...because we happen to see each other at store and that was for 3 mins and she still wouldnt go to him..i had her since she was born did everythang from doctor visit,,buying everythang until i put him on child support in july...when she was 4 months he use to pop her hands because she very active baby and advance he use to yell at her all the time and drink and drive with her,,,i have plently of witness saw him popping her,,heard him yelling at her even to his mother told him stop popping on that baby she dont no whats going on he going to say yes she do...and his mother told me that her son dont play with kids he will beat them...and everytime i let him take her with him out places someone like his nieces mother will call me and say she have the baby and i go get her and when i go to where he at he will have a beer in his hand so i asked him where u going to drink and drive home with our daughter? he smile,,,so i took her home safe ...and he also was changing her pamper one morning why i was washing her bottles out she was 3 months an he came to throught the dirty pamper away and his penis was hard and i asked him why was he likethat changing her pamper he going to say it want because of my daughter he said he always hard i said not around my daughter!!!! but he havent call me ,,ask me how she doing or nothing a total of 7 months no how she doing ..no hear from him at all ...so i wanna know do i have a chance of getting sole or primary custody of my daughter by he file for joint custody?

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Denisha - posted on 08/02/2012

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We went to court n i have custody and he has supervise visitatio. Ery otha saturday and we have to go back to court in dec..i dnt know why? Is it to see how supervise visitation going or to start letting him start doing over nights? I hope not!!!!

Kristi - posted on 07/02/2012

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What did they say? Do you have to let him see her? It is so frustrating that child custody cases are allowed to carry on for so long. It's not like we're deciding over material things that can be fixed or replaced. We are talking about the safety and well being of children. It makes me so angry. I will continue to send positive thoughts and prayers your way.

Denisha - posted on 07/01/2012

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We haven't been to court yet but we been to mediation and he didn't deny that he didn't pop her at 4months or get hardon or drinkin an driving with her he tried to change the subject!!! The mediation lady eyes got big as heck!!!

Kristi - posted on 07/01/2012

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I just read this for the first time, I hope your court battles are over and you and your daughter are safe and happy, far away from her father.

I will be looking forward to your update. Many blessings to you both.

Marika - posted on 06/22/2012

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Sure you do.
Find a lawyer documents everything you said and in my opinion you will get full custody and he will get supervised visitations right.
Take care of yourself and your baby.
Wish you the best.

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