Gkredhead - posted on 10/10/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Alright my husband is military and left for deployment in january. He left me with his roommates and they were very unstable, dangerous people. Well, one of them threw a party and drugged me in March and took advantage and I found out I was pregnant at the end of April, but didn't bother pressing charges because by the time I got around to finding the right lawyer, he was already in jail for drunk driving (like his third or fourth offense) on a suspended license, disturbance of the peace, and a noise violation and was supposed to be away for quite a while in jail.
Of course, I told my husband from the get-go about everything going on and he was actually excited and wants to raise the baby as his own and give her his name, and he's being very supportive and wonderful through all of this.
So can I put his name on the birth certificate? What if the bio dad gets out of jail and decides he wants to try to get rights or put his name on the B.C.??
I live in TN and as far as I know, based off of a few friends who have been in situations where they have dead beat baby dad's who don't want to have anything to do with their child, they said they were told the father of their child had 10 days from the day of the child's birth to claim his rights and if he didn't, then he was by law giving up his rights by inaction.
would it be legal and okay for me to put my husband on the baby's birth certificate??