Claire - posted on 07/21/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
i have been married to my husband for 13 years when i was pregnant with our second child he cheated and a child came from this one night stand... now the kids mother after getting a divorce from her husband wants my husband to be a father to this child after no contact for 4 years.
At first he was fine with not knowing if he was the father of the child and i forgave him and we went on with our life but now that he found out that he is the farther he told me he would pay for support and have nothing to do with the child
Then two weeks ago he said he wanted to do the "right thing" and be a part of the kids life... i told him i didnt want any part of the child and i didnt want our kids to know that they have a step sister.
So my question is can it work if he leaves with the child every other weekend? or when the time comes and our children know about this step sister if i leave and he spends "daddy time" with the kids