Can my bf get custody of his son if she is using her son to get at bf?

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A few months before starting a relationship my bf talked to me about his ex.

He broke off the relationship because of domestic violence. She would hit him and get out of control. Around last year October their relationship ended and she tried to commit suicide infront of him. He then rushed her to the hospital.

A month later She told him she was pregnant .

He talked to her about abortion but she refused saying she had had an abortion at 15 and she didnt want to do it again. My bf was not convinced the child was his since she would tell him of her encounters with other men . So he doubted he was the father and she texted him saying " i wouldve aborted this kid if i knew it wasnt yours"

The child is now born but we have reason to believe she is just using the kid to her advantage and not really thinking about the childs best interest. She will not allow my bf to have any time with him unless he is with her and the child. She also insists on meeting him up at his moms house with his family and her there to see the kid when he can easily pick the baby up from her house or anywhere else.

Every time he trys to come to an agreement she bring up the past about how she doesnt trust him etc.

At this point he just wants to settle things in court.


Dove - posted on 08/16/2016




Going to court is the only way to settle things. He needs to get a lawyer and petition the court for a paternity test (unless one was already done) and file for joint custody.

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