Beverley - posted on 09/01/2011 ( 22 moms have responded )
my son is 13 and has not seen his father for 4yrs (sons choice not to see him), he wants my partner of 8 years to adopt him and change his name. He has aways had contact and holidays with his father until 4 years ago when he did something when he was drunk and terrified my son by saying he would take him away from us if he told anybody!
just not sure if we can adopt or change his name?? I have been with my partner for 8 yrs since my son was 4 and i split with the father when he was only 2