Lisa - posted on 08/27/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I need opinions, I have custody of my 2 young teen boys. The father is given a holiday sched. when he can get them and everyother weekend. The problem is he tells me about his holidays at the last min. For instance, labor day weekend is coming up. it is my weekend but by the guidelines he gets them. but, he will tell me when he is picking them up at the last min. its not my problem.hes a big boy. im not going to remind him. ive asked him to do this in advance. when is enuf, enuf. he was supposed to have my son for his b day but never called or nothing. 2 days later he was bi----- cuz he wanted make up time. i asked the court they said it was his problem cuz he didnt make an attempt. is there a rule or anything that says he should have to notify me within a time period to let me know when he is going to get the kids.