Gillian - posted on 06/04/2012 ( 13 moms have responded )
My boyfriend of 3+ years and i have a 2 year old son together. My bf is a manipulative drug addict, he recently "broke up" with me through a text message fight, the 3rd one in 3 weeks, he said to me he needs a level head and is happy (he doesnt seem to realize i know he has been seeing this floozy ugly idiot homewrecker that has been a problem before, he is using her for drug money and rides and she is dumb enough to do it, she refused to believe he and i were still together for the past 6 months)...anyway...
Throughout our relationship my bf has disappeared for weeks at a time, the most recent one was the past 3 weeks, yesterday he finally text me and was arguing with me then tried to say he wants to be civil. Then the next day it turned into him harassing me, verbally abusive, threatened to bring me down and take my child away from me, threatened with child protective services and kidnapping charge if i went over the state boarder.He is thrashing out at me bc he cant admit to himself how bad of a person he is, He has been violent towards me before and held my son hostage when he was a newborn, he uses drugs daily and has multiple personalities. He walked out on us several times and while i was giving birth, he was withdrawing. He is very manipulative!! I am very fearful for our safety, what i can do until my case moves forward, if i can get temporary custody (and how) or if i can get immediate custody to protect my son from his abusive father. Can anyone give me some advice? im frustrated bc if you want someone out of your life you move on, instead he is doing the opposite, im like his personal yoyo, why bother talking to me, good bad or threatening if all you end up doing is texting me back later just to rub it all in my face again?