Can't cope with my twins

Carrie - posted on 06/27/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I feel like I am cracking up and I feel like giving them away to someone who would cope my twins are 10 month but was born 2 weeks early I feel like I have gone through each stage twice I have b/g twins that have never slept through the night on a good night I must have 3 hours of broken sleep recently my boy has had a helmet on to correct his head shape and the sleeping is even worse he is up all night and he wakes his sister up my boy as just started crawling and pulling his self up on literally anything he can. I've really enjoyed been a mum of twins until past couple of weeks I just don't get any time to relax my mind can never shut off I'm always waiting for one to wake up after the other all I seem to be doing is crying and resenting them i feel so bad as a mum for thinking how I do I hardly get any help there sperm doner as never seen them as he is a waist of space I just feel really lost and down i just want to give up

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Veronica - posted on 06/28/2016

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You might have post partum depression( from experience). Let a dr. know how you feel. Its hard maybe upto they hit 2 years old is when the independence comes. But trust me you will get past it.

Sarah - posted on 06/27/2016

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You sound tired. You even say you were handling things until the last few weeks, so take the advice you are being given and ask for help!
Also, unless you truly used a sperm donor, please do not refer to the father of your children in this manner. It is offensive to those who have been donors or have used donor sperm. YOU chose to have sex and make babies, if you want support from him then petition the court for child support.

Sarah - posted on 06/27/2016

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As Dove said get some help. Friends, family, neighbors, etc. Also keep a routine this will help a lot. Some days the routine won't work as well, but it does help.

Dove - posted on 06/27/2016

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You need to get some help. Do you have any friends or family that can come over and watch the kids while you get a nap?

Twins... are amazing, but there is no way in the world I would have survived the first year w/out help.

Sofia - posted on 06/27/2016

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I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I was completely overwhelmed with one child! I can't imagine two. There are organizations that will help for free especially for twins. Someone helps out for a few hours a day

Whatdoyoumeanmail - posted on 06/27/2016

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cant beleve that u are not a milluner yet for get about babys can get that for u all day not sure if u doing it for work or fun ....sorry about your boy all in all i feel bad but i been set up to think he is a user and monipulator now lf u not a miluner we need to do somthing abot that because am going to tell u i dont feat shit of subgect how the hell your boy got with ex pitbul its amaizing i am a lion cant control her

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