Lacy - posted on 06/07/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My fiance's son (5) is over every weekend, alternating between the whole weekend and just Friday nights. Since school is out though, we get him every other week for the whole week. I never had a problem with him while I was pregnant. Recently though, I can't hardly stand him especially when he is around his dad. My fiance acts like he is dad of the year and loves on him and completely pushes me and our son aside. He doesn't help with the baby one bit and thinks because he goes to work and cooks supper, his job is done. His son sleeps in the bed with us, won't eat anything other than cookies and ice cream, and is spoiled rotten. He expects a new Lego set every time he's over here and pouts when his mamaw tells him she can't afford one. I love my fiance, but I dread the weeks his son is here. I feel bad for being unfriendly to them when he's here, but I'm fed up. I feel like he should be sleeping in a bed of his own, have some rules, and that my fiance should acknowledge that he has two sons now. I understand that he feels like he needs to male it up to his son that him and his ex-wife split, but aren't there better ways than to spoil him? I'm scared our son will feel like his daddy doesn't want anything to do with him when ever his brother is over here.