Katie Lee - posted on 12/02/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I need legal opinions on this subject, even though I value your personal opinions on the situation. A long story short, I signed divorce papers that had wrong information on it, as in it said I had an income and that I was agreeing to $400 in child support when that was not the case. I have dated messages that says he would send a notarized form to saying he pays $650. Mind you, the state would make him pay $900. He got mad at Me and said he was only going to send $400 from now on and if I take it to the child support office he would take me to court for full custody. Only a moron judge would decide that he is a better parent than me. The guy never calls to ask about his son, the only time he had visitation with our son he openly admitted that he had no idea what Rowan had been eating while both of them stayed at his mom's house and that he didn't even change diapers. This is the first time he has seen him since returning from a year tour of Korea in the Army. Our son is only 14 months old. After a 5 day visit, he tried returning our son 5 hours early while I was trying to clean a house for money. When he does drop our son off he is sick, I take him to the doctor and he had gotten bronchitis. So that is just a little exert to show you how much he really cares. Well I am a full time student graduating in 3 months, my only income is food stamp, WIC, and his child support. So of course I will be going to the child support office to have him pay the full amount because that is the only money I have to support our son. My question is, he actually thinks that he can win a custody battle because I am 5 months pregnant and our divorce was just finalized even though I have dated messages from him saying he wanted a divorce 4 months before I even met my boyfriend. I also have messages that he finally admitted to having a gf and that was the main reason for the divorce besides the fact that we did not marry for love. After I laughed and told him how that would not work. Now he is trying to gather up proof that I cheated on him before he wanted a divorce. I told him a long time ago that I had kissed another man but that we did not have sex. He thinks the phone he stole from me with text messages between me and the other man prove that we did. So from your experience, do you think he can build up some kind of case to actually win? Here are some other facts: We have agreed joint custody. He had a choice to getting a house or living in the barracks and he chose to live in the barracks which he can not bring our son for his visitations. He is stationed in TX and I live in GA. I was in the Army when we met.