Raquel - posted on 08/27/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi ladies, i'm in a bit of a rough situation, i really need your help please. I had my daughter in march 2015, she was then after in the hospital for a month & came home to my residence. Me & the father were not married, we were just boyfriend & girlfriend. Since then, he has lost his job, she has no insurance & since she came home from the hospital he wants nothing to do with her, he doesnt support her & i do not receive child support. I agreed to give his last name to the baby on her birth certificate because i thought we were going to be together, he was going to ask me to marry him. Also, after i gave birth, it was rough, i was totally out of it, not thinking at all, especially because she aspirated during birth. She was in the hospital for a month & a half, the day she came home, he was there for about a week, then decided he wanted NOTHING to do with her. This was all in the state of New Jersey. I would really like my daughter to have my name since she's going to be on my insurance & i fully support her. How can i go about doing this, without him? we don't speak & again, he's not around. I would really appreciate your advice if anyone has gone through something similar or may know. Thank you all so much and best of luck to every single one of you, may you receive exactly what you ask for, for your children.