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Teresa - posted on 07/06/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Looking for some help/insight/advice...... My husband has been caught for the SECOND time chatting with other women on some sites. I took a picture of this on my phone, straight off of his phone. I forwarded those messages back to him because I wanted him to know that I had found this AGAIN !!!!! He swears nothing has gone further than chatting and from the conversation it doesn't seem like it. We live a good life and I'm at a point in life where I have everything I wanted out of life. Starting over makes me sick at my stomach BUT how much of this do I endure?? I do not want to be a floor mat NOR do I want to make rash decisions!!!!! I feel like I need to take some action to let him know how serious I am about this and I will not continue to tolerate this behavior. How much is too much?? HELP

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Teresa - posted on 07/07/2014

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Thank you so much. I am absolutely miserable right now and I don't know if that feeling is coming from the idea of losing my marriage or staying in it and this continuing !!!!

Gena - posted on 07/07/2014

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My advice would be to sit down with him and have a serious talk! Ask him why he is on dating sites and chatting to other women.And dont let him deny it since you already have proof that he is doing it. Ask him if you arent enough for him,and tell him exactly how it makes you feel. Ask him to stop,and since you already feel you cant tolerate his behavior,tell him if it doesnt stop that you will end the relationship.Thats just if you feel you can make that desicion. Another advice would be to maybe try going to counseling together. I meen there is no reason for him to be on dating sites if he has you,how would he feel if you were the one on dating sites? Just always remember you deserve better,a man should treat you with respect. And if my husband would be on dating sites i wouldnt find that respectful at all! Good luck,i hope you can use my advice.

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