Lorraine - posted on 01/06/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
My partner cheated with a colleague and they had a child. He and I stayed together and it was hard. I threw it in his face all the time. He had no contact with her for 3 yrs then I discovered txts to he'd planning a trip to the zoo and some were flirty, again I was hurt he never spoke to me first. All in all for the lay 3 yrs he has sneaked about and lied to me. 3 wks ago I discovered he was being intimate with her. It turns out he was lying to both of us and saying what we wanted to hear. I asked him to leave and I miss him as I still love him. He has always been a cheat but I am the only one he has stayed with his norm is to cheat and move in with the new woman. He appears to be heartbroken that I kicked him out and we are texting some are nasty some are nice and he claims its me he lives. I am reeling from this and although I love him I don't know if I should move on. Please help me as I'm lost right now.