Goonum - posted on 03/19/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
Please advise me on how to cope with a cheating husband. We are married for 35 years and have 3 adult children that do not live with us. I am 57 and he is 58. He has been cheating throughout our marriage. I suspected a few times but he denied it because i didnt have enough proof. He then had a crush on my best friend and acted on it and got caught. I am having psychiatric counselling but am still struggling to cope. I decided not to leave because I believe he robbed me of my life in the 35 years we were married and earned respect because of me. Now i demand that he does everything that a husband should do and i am not going to tell me children yet. they will be devastated. they will not believe that this has happenend.