Chelsea - posted on 12/16/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I'm extremely upset right now. My daughters father and I are separated and he gets an overnight every Saturday. She had not been feeling well when she went and I told him to please make sure she got plenty of rest and not to take her out, because I didn't want to risk her getting any sicker. He rolled his eyes and said ok. I also told him to call me if she got worse. I have sole custody and he was told by our judge that he is suppose to notify me in times such as these. When she was returned to me she was extremely sick. She was coughing and throwing up. I had found out from some friends that he and his not so wonderful girlfriend ( she has been teaching my daughter I am not her mother and she is) had taken her out until eleven o o'clock Saturday night, they had posted this on Facebook. My daughter is on a schedule and her bedtime is 8. I took her to the hospital and discovered she has whooping cough and the hospital had to put her on a antibiotic and a ventilator when she got there. I was so upset, I called him immediately and he confirmed he was out with her all night and that I can just get over it and that heard his gf will do what they want. What can I do?? Is this neglect, in my eyes them disregarding her health is! I can't afford court again so what can Ido? Very worried mother right now.